This has been my bug-a boo too.....and a dilemma extremitis...
I manifest...(oh do I manifest!)

the "problem", as it were, is when that which was begat of the purest intention and focus on positive outcome, somehow switches horses, and the "dream" turns into a bloody nightmare....(sigh)
somewhere, somehow I just don't GET it and I am tired of having the rug pulled out from under me while NP sits back and laughs their collective asses off!
iON says I would HAVE to be a powerful creator, to be able to create the messes I get myself into...
but nowhere have I seen the "formula" for getting exactly what I order when I go thru the big drive- thru called life
(I want it MY way, damn it!!!)
or how to UN-create the monster once it's escaped the lab
(here Kitty Kitty...NICE Kitty)
iON (he/they/it) seems to think it's great "pfun" ((better than watching the 3 stooges for them I guess!)

Well, guys, I hate to tell ya but it's NOT so pfrickin pfun when you're up to your ears in it and can see no way out!
Drunvalo Melchizidek has said that the "secret" missing from "the secret" is that unless you are creating from the heart, your "creation" (coming from mind only) is subject to a sticky outcome that can go either way (hello polarity!) when it comes to the results.
iOn has said (if I understand correctly) that it's a question of balance and that not paying close enough attention to the process (?)/fulcrum/place of power can lead to results that are the opposite of that which was intended.
but if it's something that I AM doing,or not doing right, I am not aware of what it is.....
I know, metaphorically speaking i need to BE it..
(BECOME the Snickers bar Bob!..YOU melt /IT melt's)
( - in your mouth and not your hand I hope)
I too find that things usually work best when I just "relax and allow", but then I get lost in the labyrinth of my mind, trying to figure out the whys n hows n wherefores...of what just happened -be it good or bad
Does the secret lie within the Snickers bar Bob?
hmmmm what about Bob?
Does anybody have any ideas/suggestions/practical/usable advice/insights/gleanings?
This is a very serious thing for me.
Really,
I mean it..
quit snickering iON!
(I thought you were supposed to be my frIend... and please, no 3 Stooges YouTube videos):-Q
Tullah