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OK, I'll be first.
My situation is different, but I'll share anyway.
There isn't a benefit in highlighting the contrast in our experiences. Best to
just allow the experience(s), and push against as little as possible.
We can clear these issues up, but from here on out, our approach / perspective
to contrast has been made clear. Don't push against and don't give it too much
attention.
At the very least, just remember that words create.
So, one example of my own.
After I'd become involved in the iON situation, maybe three or four months
in, I was seeing / experiencing the affects of involvement / interaction /
engagement with the iON situation as issues, or potential issues quickly being
cleared up.
It was actually quite miraculous how things were quickly easing up. I was on the
drops and fairly well enmeshed in the iON situation.
Well, as I was out driving in the city one day, the driver of a parked vehicle opened
his door and began to exit into the street, forcing me to slam on my brakes.
I hit the brakes, but slammed into his door, smashed it into the front end of his car,
and smashed and ripped up the front of my truck.
The driver saw me coming and safely ducked back inside his vehicle at the last
second.
My initial reaction was surprise that this had happened.
Not because I'd only had one accident in my life, but that this nice little near miss
was while engaging the iON situation.
For some reason, I saw these sorts of things being cleared up.
I was pondering how it is that this occurred with my track record, the absolute
stupidity of the driver, who would be stepping right into a busy lane of traffic,
and my involvement in the iON situation.
I thought things were supposed to clear up. Smooth sailing.
Now, I will say, those thoughts were at the very beginning, and I wasn't really tore
up about it.
It was an honest mistake, from a hurried courier, and his company paid for 100%
of the repairs to my vehicle.
What I saw in hindsight is a situation that came out of nowhere and was cleared
up virtually as soon as it had occurred.
What I told myself was that I wasn't going to talk about it, and I wasn't going to
look back.
It just ended up being an experience and that's all. I didn't give too much care or
attention to it.
I wanted to share that, because one may come into this (i.e., the iON) situation
with certain expectations, or presumptions as to how things should go.
To me, although I don't totally know the dynamics that brought that incident about,
and don't care to probe for them, it just showed me that the field is wide open.
Anything can happen, but, it seems, whatever does can be approached from a more
detached perspective and not picked apart or pushed against.
That being said, it was early on. I honestly see (and have seen) these sorts of
experiences diminishing.
It was a pointed way to show myself how rapid a situation can get cleared up; the
solution appearing simultaneously with the issue.
On a side note, the drops made me so relaxed in the situation that I took total control
of it. It was a nasty, startling wreck, but I was calm throughout.
The driver was so shaken up he couldn't write. He asked me to write both of our
information down.
From here on out, I expect any potential issues to clear themselves up before I even
have a chance to experience them...Of course, I don't limit. hehe
My two cents, Indra, is just to deal with it appropriately, but go easy with it, allow it
to clear itself up, and don't make a big to-do about it.
Perhaps this situation is your way of showing yourself how you can handle
larger, seemingly unmanageable situations and clear them up with the greatest of
ease.
Sometimes we need to experience something - to have it validated to our lying
eyes, before we can buy into it, or let it really sink in.
When one experiences something, especially, something alarming, or moving,
that increases the impact and impression that event has on oneself.
By the way, we have worky jobs for money checks, but the easiest way is just to
allow the money checks to come, effortlessly, without a worky job.
No effort or attention required. Just let the money checks come.
I am, of course, still in the process of allowing. I'll keep you posted. ahah
Ten bucks says no one wants to talk about their contrast. ahah
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